Well, it’s been exactly two weeks since the senseless tragedy in Newtown,
Connecticut. I said to myself as that day
unfolded, I would not be a part of the problem anymore. Regardless of how small
my voice may be, regardless of how much impact media has or has not on events such
as this... I decided that day, no mas.
As a fellow human, you cannot grasp the horror those kids and teachers faced
on that morning. As a father, I will not even allow myself to even attempt to
fathom the emotion of the loss of a child, sitting innocently in a kindergarten
class room, counting down the days to Christmas. My heart truly goes out to
those families involved. Only a small percentage of us have to bury our own
children and for these families to have to do it because of something like
this, is truly unspeakable, so I won’t even waste my words to do so any longer.
As soon as this happened everyone (and rightfully so) are looking for
answers. Its human nature, we are creatures so dependent on emotion. However,
with human nature and emotion come mistakes. The media fans the flames with its
inaccurate reporting, hyperbole and this desire to beat the other guy to the
punch. It wasn’t even 15 minutes into the breaking news report, not even into
the three minutes of rolling ads for boner pills, Forever Lazy's and
Pepsi commercials before we seen the graphics up.
Straddled across the screen like some stripper who is about to perform her
17th lap dance of the night (with 24 more to go) the slogan and graphic were
dawned. "Tragedy in Newtown"
- "Tragedy in Sandy Hook" - "Connecticut
school massacre" etc etc etc. Hurricanes, school shootings, dead
celebrities, Presidential speeches, court verdicts... yhea, we got a graphic
for that.
Who can get there first? Who can take the best photos of the kids coming
out, who can get the most exclusive interview with the person closest to the massacre?
Get the Aunt of a dead teacher... or how about the step-mother of a child? A
survivor?? Now, that is a real prize.
From media sensationalizing comes the blame game. Blame the guns (as if you
need a link or a cite for this). Blame the games and the movies. Blame the mental health community or
the lack thereof. Blame the devil. Blame Marylin Manson. Oh, wait I'm
getting ahead of myself. Nobody listens to Manson' anymore... gonna have to
find a new whipping boy in music I suppose. Can we use Eminem? Even the
conspiracy crowd has officially claimed the attack never happened. In
fact "them" are said to be all in bed together to take over the world
and all of the dead must be living happily ever after at the north pole. Lots
of blame - but no solutions.
The truth of the matter will not require a retro fit band-aide that we as
Americans like to use for everything. The wound is much larger than that but
yet so small at the same time. That's because the wound is us. We as a people
are the problem. Individual responsibility is the best cure for any problem we
might encounter from mounting fiscal national debt to education failures in our
schools to school shootings.
Individual responsibility is hard in this case because we depend on the schools
to keep our children safe. And unless your child just so happens to be
attending the one school of a sitting Presidents children, no
school is safe from this type of act, as it is, right now.
But do we have to settle for how things are right now? Or should we demand
more? Buzzing people in and out of locked schools is a nice idea, but all
someone has to do is smash the doors or windows to gain access to hundreds if
not thousands of unarmed innocent people. That’s how these turn into bloody
massacres. If we can’t turn back the hands of time and (un) invent the gun, the
only solution is to fight fire with fire. And do it in every school in America.
It’s done in many inner cities already and it’s obviously done for the
President. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander.
This however isn’t the topic for those in mass media; instead their focus
seems to be centered on the weapons and motives of past killers instead of
focusing on protecting future victims. Making guns illegal in any way shape or
form will not keep guns out of criminal’s hands. Don't believe me? Tell me.... how’s
that "war" on drugs working out for you? A law or ban or restriction
only creates a bigger black market and thus only supports more crime and
senseless deaths. This is simply supply and demand. Yet all we hear
is #guncontrolnow. Puzzling, it is, the inability for so many to not
grasp simplistic approaches like cause and effect.
Switzerland
has some of the highest gun ownership in the world with 45.7 guns per 100
residents yet their gun related crimes are so low they don't even keep records according to a piece written in the BBC
last year. And many of these guns are fully automatic military grade rifles
(M-57 Assault rifle pictured below). Those type of weapons are already ILLEGAL
here and were not used in this case... yet we have a gun problem, and the Swiss
do not?
Again, restricting certain guns or outlawing guns all together even will not
stop senseless gun violence or school shootings. Only a gun can stop a gun. Kids in a school are locked up sitting ducks, thus security in the form
of a regular beat cop should be in place at every school in the country. We put a man on the
moon, invented the automobile, invented the computer... yet we cannot protect
our children while at school getting their shitty education? And for those of
you who say: "what are we supposed to do, put cops in the mall as
well"?
The answer is simply, no. Because if we focus on individual responsibility
(including but not limited to) on things like more concealed weapons permits
for those that qualify; the coverage and overlap would police itself. If you
put a gun in every school office in the country it would save more lives than
it would ever take by just their presence alone. Not to mention, probably foil
many attacks from happening in the first place. As time goes on, we are seeing
battle lines drawn between people who want choice and freedom while others want
to be directed and told what to think, what to believe and when to do it. Lets not let the second amendment be another victim when in reality its
the only solution. We have too many Indians, we need more chiefs.